A little over a week goes by and I hadn't heard anything, so I asked if it had been sent yet. She stated that it hadn't because some things had come up. She said that she would send it out asap, and I was cool with it.
Another week goes by without hearing anything, and I asked for a refund as some urgent stuff came up in my own life (emergency vet bills). She replied saying that she had sent it out that morning.
I didn't hear anything about it for two weeks so I shot her another note, and she seemed surprised that it hadn't gotten here. At this point I had my doubt that it had been sent at all. 10 days go by with no contact so I noted her again, and she told me it had been sent back to her address for some reason. She offered a two part refund, which I was going to accept but I still really wanted the tablet. I thought that maybe it was just being sent out with insufficent postage, so I offered to pay for priority shipping, and she was supposed to get back to me with the cost. I didn't hear anything for a week and at that point I gave up on reciveng the tablet from her.
I was mildy annoyed at the vague response, but I was going to give it until friday before I contacted her again, since she had said that is when her parents get paid. However, I noticed she had posted this a couple days after I had requested the refund, which pushed me into making this post. It honesty feels like she is going to drag her feet on refunding me, and I am worried I may never get one. I also have no confidence in someone recieving the tablet if she does manage to resell it. I have been considering doing a chargeback through paypal, although I'd rather not have it come to that.
***update*** - This has been resolved, last night (4/20) Honesty. sent me the full amout of the refund.