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Long story short, I had a falling out with a friend who was also a client. To say the "break up" ended on a good note, I don't think it did. And unfortunately, through this nonsense, I wasn't able to finish correcting one of his commissions as we weren't on speaking terms, I kept forgetting, he wasn't rushing to get it finished, and I was working on other commissions at the time. To put it simply, I finally made these corrections, and would like to give them to him, but I don't know how to word the note. I don't want him to think I'm ready to be friends again. I just want to drop his commission off in a professional and buisness like manner, and be on my way. I don't wish to be cold, though. I hold no malace towards him. However, I couldn't say how he feels about me. Regardless, I just want to give him his corrected commission and move on.

I was originally going to put:

"Just dropping this off before I keep forgetting about it. It being a paid piece, it's something that should've been corrected immediatedly, and for that apologize.
Ps. I am contacting you in a buisness manner only."

But I feel that's too "cold". I'm terrible with words, so I'm hoping someone here would be able to help me with this? Thank you.

Edit 1/26/16: I was able to give him his commission. And at first all things seemed to have gone smoothley, but several days later he came back to me, asking to talk because he claims he's tired of "running" and feels there's unfinished business between us. Now, he's not being malicious in his words, he just feels there's something to patch between us, but I don't want to, nor do I feel anything needs to be "patched". I just wanted to give him his commission and be done with it all. But I can't if he won't leave it alone. I'm not asking for advice for this part, because I already responded to him, letting him know that I personally would've been fine to have just given his commission and be on my way, but I decided to let him talk. Stupid move, I know, but I've already said it, and I would feel bad taking it back. So I suppose this is now on me. Still though, thanks to everyone who gave me advice.

Edit 1/31/16: Okay. I was more firm with him this time, and he backed off without any fuss. Things are settled between the both of us, and it looks like things will and should be smooth from here on out. Thanks once more to everyone who has helped me with my original issue.

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Jan. 14th, 2016 04:11 am (UTC)
I like the phrase you have now, but would leave off the PS. It already sounds professional and business-like to me without it needing to be said.

If he does somehow construe that as wanting to be friends again, you can correct him at that point, and only if needed. "Please do not misunderstand; I was only fulfilling our transaction and consider it complete. I do not desire further contact." Or something along those lines.
Jan. 14th, 2016 04:32 am (UTC)
Alright. I'll take that into consideration. Thank you for responding.
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Jan. 14th, 2016 04:34 am (UTC)
I was thinking about that, but I mostly prefer to be honest to my clients if I am able.

That could work, too. Thanks for responding.
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Jan. 14th, 2016 05:02 am (UTC)
True enough. I didn't think about that. Thank you.
Jan. 16th, 2016 04:03 pm (UTC)
I don't mean to bud in, but I do agree to leave out the "I forgot" part. I feel whenever there is a delay I just express to my clients that there was a delay, but avoid going into details, mostly because I feel it opens you up to argument/feels maybe too personal in ways.

I have yet to have a client ask me WHY there was a delay on the work.
Jan. 22nd, 2016 02:56 am (UTC)
Oh, no. You're not butting in at all. You're in fact adding onto the conversation. Thank you by the way.
Jan. 15th, 2016 06:35 am (UTC)
I'd leave out the "ps" part. As said above it already sounds professional. What you have already is good. I wouldn't think too much into it.

"Dropping this off with the finished corrections. I apologize for the delay."
Jan. 22nd, 2016 02:58 am (UTC)
Alright. I'll just get rid of the "ps" then. After rereading it, and everyone's comments, it would be better without it. Thank you for your advice.
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Jan. 22nd, 2016 03:00 am (UTC)
Yeah, I agree with you. I don't think I like the "dropping off" part of the sentence either. Its been a week since I made this entry, so I've had time to think it all over. So I'll fix that part and remove the "ps" like others have suggested, and nuke the "forgetting" part. After, I think it should be good. Thank you for your input.
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