We started a trade a long time ago and I finished my half, unsure about his half. He told me he had it I think at some point and was going to send it so I told him my addy. I am yet to recieve it :C
Just now I IM'd him and this happpened:
Seeing as you can leave IMs for people when they are offline and it says it above, but then can't send it makes me think he blocked me and is avoiding me for some reason.
Found out that he DID block me because I got my mate to add him to her buddy list and he was online. I made her IM him about it and he said he was going to block her as well because he "doesn't want anything to do with the fandom anymore." So he won't even finish my badge before he leaves the fandom. I personally see that as rude since you can finish up old ends and THEN leave.
I also read his journal on FA and apparently he is going to FurFright even though he doesn't want anything to do with the fandom after it. Doesn't make sense to me to go to Furfright if he detests furries as much as he says he does.