http://community.livejournal.com/artists_beware/131408.html?view=2837840#t2837840
since some people said they'd like to hear the end result. I decided to send her prints and do two large badges for her, and it's all good. She was awfully nice about it, and totally understanding.
That is all. :3
p.s. Most people said I should just send her prints, in case anyone was wondering. I just decided to do the badges anyways to show my, er, goodwill.